Ruth Rathblott creates spaces for people to be seen. She works with organizations that want to build more inclusive work environments so that they can break down the walls of miscommunication and produce more cohesive teams and higher-performing employees. Learn more at www.RuthRathblott.com.

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Why do leaders have to go first?

Leadership is key to making workplaces more inclusive and dynamic. In this issue, we’re focusing on how critical it is for leaders to promote a culture of openness by modeling it themselves. This ‘unhiding’ is not just good for building trust and boosting team spirit; it’s good for business. “What’s the culture like here?” I…

Netflix's Love is Blind pods. ID: Two octagon shaped rooms separated with a person sitting in each room. (image credit: TV Insider)

The Power of the Pause

Let me start by ‘unhiding.’ Confession: I love watching reality TV—it’s a simple pleasure. (Maybe you do, too.) It’s often a way to turn off my brain and relax for an hour (or two…), but recently, I had an “aha!” moment while binge-watching Netflix’s Love is Blind. For those unfamiliar, the show is a social…

A circle with arrows indicating the loop of the steps of unhiding Acknowledge, Invite, Build, Share. The Four Steps to Unhiding: Acknowledge, Invite, Build, Share. ©2024 Ruth Rathblott. All rights reserved.

The Power of Sharing Your Story

In a world that often subtly (and not so subtly) encourages us to hide our true selves, the act of sharing our personal stories emerges as a beacon of hope and connection. The importance of sharing our stories hit home for me during a recent conversation. We kicked off the call with introductions. I started…

Quote from the book, Singlehandedly. Learning to Unhide and Embrace Connection. by Ruth Rathblott, MSW. "We Can't Unhide Alone. The Key to Unhiding is Connection."

Community is the bridge to connection

I thought I had invented hiding. It seems silly – and even embarrassing – to admit now, but I actually had to learn that I wasn’t alone in hiding. As I’ve talked to people over the years about their unhiding journeys, I have repeatedly heard that former “hiders” thought they were the only ones in…

woman in red jacket and hat with her arms out, and penguins behind her. Photo from Penguin Island, Southern Ocean (January 1, 2024)

Ready to unhide? Invite someone to share the journey with you.

I hope you had a terrific holiday season and are starting the year with a feeling of rejuvenation. I certainly am after an incredible adventure in Antarctica. I’ll be writing about it more on social media, but suffice it to say, it was a once-in-a-lifetime experience that I’ll never forget. Lots of diversity, connection, and…

Words: The unreliable narrator is an odd concept. The way I see it, we're all unrealiable narrators of our lives who ususally have absolute trsut in our self-told stories. Any truth is, after all, just a matter of perspective. Sarah Pinborough. Brainy Quote

The stories we tell ourselves: Are we reliable narrators?

The Power of Unhiding: Redefining Our Narratives In this edition of our blog, we delve into the narratives we construct about ourselves and the profound impact they can have on our lives. Join me in exploring inspiring stories about people who have made the brave choice to unhide and share my own experiences as someone…