Ruth Rathblott creates spaces for people to be seen. She works with organizations that want to build more inclusive work environments so that they can break down the walls of miscommunication and produce more cohesive teams and higher-performing employees. Learn more at www.RuthRathblott.com.

A circle with arrows indicating the loop of the steps of unhiding Acknowledge, Invite, Build, Share. The Four Steps to Unhiding: Acknowledge, Invite, Build, Share. ©2024 Ruth Rathblott. All rights reserved.

The Power of Sharing Your Story

In a world that often subtly (and not so subtly) encourages us to hide our true selves, the act of sharing our personal stories emerges as a beacon of hope and connection. The importance of sharing our stories hit home for me during a recent conversation. We kicked off the call with introductions. I started…

Quote from the book, Singlehandedly. Learning to Unhide and Embrace Connection. by Ruth Rathblott, MSW. "We Can't Unhide Alone. The Key to Unhiding is Connection."

Community is the bridge to connection

I thought I had invented hiding. It seems silly – and even embarrassing – to admit now, but I actually had to learn that I wasn’t alone in hiding. As I’ve talked to people over the years about their unhiding journeys, I have repeatedly heard that former “hiders” thought they were the only ones in…

woman in red jacket and hat with her arms out, and penguins behind her. Photo from Penguin Island, Southern Ocean (January 1, 2024)

Ready to unhide? Invite someone to share the journey with you.

I hope you had a terrific holiday season and are starting the year with a feeling of rejuvenation. I certainly am after an incredible adventure in Antarctica. I’ll be writing about it more on social media, but suffice it to say, it was a once-in-a-lifetime experience that I’ll never forget. Lots of diversity, connection, and…

Words: The unreliable narrator is an odd concept. The way I see it, we're all unrealiable narrators of our lives who ususally have absolute trsut in our self-told stories. Any truth is, after all, just a matter of perspective. Sarah Pinborough. Brainy Quote

The stories we tell ourselves: Are we reliable narrators?

The Power of Unhiding: Redefining Our Narratives In this edition of our blog, we delve into the narratives we construct about ourselves and the profound impact they can have on our lives. Join me in exploring inspiring stories about people who have made the brave choice to unhide and share my own experiences as someone…

Words: When have your felt that you had part of yourself to fit in?

How to ask about disability

This blog brings you inspiring stories about people who have made the brave choice to unhide and share my own experiences as someone who hid my own visible disability. If you’re not familiar with me, you can read some background here. Here’s the quick version: while I built a successful 25-year career in the nonprofit…

Discovering the Invisible in Diversity

Our differences take on many forms, some are hidden in order to avoid the feeling that we don’t belong. In our previous articles, we shared why creating safe places for people to share their differences is at the heart of a culture of belonging.  We often define invisible diversity as those differences that cannot be…