White female, smiling, wearing a white shirt; one hand resting on her chin, limb different hand resting on computer.

Reflections on a Year of Unhiding

When I started this newsletter, I wasn’t sure I could commit to writing it every month. But the stories, feedback, and insights you’ve shared with me have kept me going—and I’m so glad I did. In case you missed an edition, you can catch up on all previous issues here. Together, we’ve explored what it…

ID: Image of a person writing in a notebook, focusing on their hands and pen. One hand is limb different.

Why Hiding Might Be Holding You (and Others) Back

Not everyone is going to get you—and that’s okay. During a recent speaking event, I realized that not everyone is ready to unhide. Some may not see its importance, and others aren’t ready to face the parts of themselves they’ve been hiding. But here’s the truth: hiding and unhiding are part of a continuum. Some…

ID: Woman standing and extending her arms on a beach with a beautiful sunset in the background.

How Often Do You Pause?

Sometimes, it’s in the stillness that we see how far we’ve come — especially on our journey of unhiding. How often do you take the time to pause and reflect on your progress? In a previous UNHIDING issue (April 2024), I discussed the power of the pause — how taking a moment between the steps…

A picture of my younger self at 1 year old

Hiding Anxiety: The Silent Struggle

Have you ever felt that nervous, exhausting pressure to keep a part of yourself hidden? Most of us have. And yet, there’s something powerful when people share those personal stories and challenges. When they open up about their struggles, it allows us to feel less alone and permits us to acknowledge our own. Celebrities have…

ID: Woman sliding down a water slide with her hands in the air. One hand is limb different.

Celebrate Freedom by Unhiding

It may seem silly, but this past weekend, I decided to try something new—I went down a water slide for the first time ever. As I zipped down and plunged into the pool, I felt a rush of freedom and joy. It wasn’t just the ride that brought exhilaration; it was the liberating feeling of…

ID: B/W photo: white woman wearing sunglasses and a leather jacket. One hand rests on her chin. Words: To Hide or Not To Hide? (Photo by Molly Zacher)

5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Unhide at Work

How do I know if I should unhide at work? This is a common question I hear. It touches on personal identity, workplace dynamics, and living more openly. Deciding to unhide parts of your identity at work can be challenging but also very rewarding. Based on insights from my speaking engagements and books, Singlehandedly and…