The artist, Ruth, with 4 of her art pieces. Singlehandedly creating. Unhiding through art, one canvas at a time.

Painting With Your Other Hand.

This summer, I started painting—with the hand I hid for 25 years. Because sometimes the things we’ve hidden the longest have the most to teach us. Facing the Doubts Truth? I wasn’t sure what would happen. Maybe something beautiful, maybe something that looked like a preschool finger-painting. (Spoiler: some of it did.) And underneath it…

A collage with three polaroid-style images hanging on a clothesline under the phrase “Hiding is having a moment!” Left: TIME100 Health Dinner panel (May 2025). Center: NYTimes Advertiser Perspective article titled The Moment…I Stopped Hiding and Began to Lead (July 2025). Right: Mel Robbins Podcast with text “You’re not defined by your worst moment” (July 2025).

Hiding Is Having a Moment.

Lately, I’ve been noticing hiding everywhere, at a dinner with TIME, splashed across a full-page ad in The New York Times, and in a candid conversation on Mel Robbins’ podcast. You’ve been spotting it too, sending me articles, podcasts, and movie scenes (keep them coming). Hiding—and unhiding—are everywhere. Once you start noticing it, you can’t…

Why Hiding Feels So Exhausting

I remember sitting in meetings early in my career, working so hard to keep parts of myself hidden. I thought it would keep me safe. But by the end of the day, I was completely drained. Recently, after listening to my brilliant speaker friend Cait Donovan talk about burnout and the brain, I started wondering:…