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Celebrate Freedom by Unhiding

It may seem silly, but this past weekend, I decided to try something new—I went down a water slide for the first time ever. As I zipped down and plunged into the pool, I felt a rush of freedom and joy. It wasn’t just the ride that brought exhilaration; it was the liberating feeling of…

ID: B/W photo: white woman wearing sunglasses and a leather jacket. One hand rests on her chin. Words: To Hide or Not To Hide? (Photo by Molly Zacher)

5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Unhide at Work

How do I know if I should unhide at work? This is a common question I hear. It touches on personal identity, workplace dynamics, and living more openly. Deciding to unhide parts of your identity at work can be challenging but also very rewarding. Based on insights from my speaking engagements and books, Singlehandedly and…

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Why do leaders have to go first?

Leadership is key to making workplaces more inclusive and dynamic. In this issue, we’re focusing on how critical it is for leaders to promote a culture of openness by modeling it themselves. This ‘unhiding’ is not just good for building trust and boosting team spirit; it’s good for business. “What’s the culture like here?” I…

Netflix's Love is Blind pods. ID: Two octagon shaped rooms separated with a person sitting in each room. (image credit: TV Insider)

The Power of the Pause

Let me start by ‘unhiding.’ Confession: I love watching reality TV—it’s a simple pleasure. (Maybe you do, too.) It’s often a way to turn off my brain and relax for an hour (or two…), but recently, I had an “aha!” moment while binge-watching Netflix’s Love is Blind. For those unfamiliar, the show is a social…

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The Power of Sharing Your Story

In a world that often subtly (and not so subtly) encourages us to hide our true selves, the act of sharing our personal stories emerges as a beacon of hope and connection. The importance of sharing our stories hit home for me during a recent conversation. We kicked off the call with introductions. I started…

Quote from the book, Singlehandedly. Learning to Unhide and Embrace Connection. by Ruth Rathblott, MSW. "We Can't Unhide Alone. The Key to Unhiding is Connection."

Community is the bridge to connection

I thought I had invented hiding. It seems silly – and even embarrassing – to admit now, but I actually had to learn that I wasn’t alone in hiding. As I’ve talked to people over the years about their unhiding journeys, I have repeatedly heard that former “hiders” thought they were the only ones in…